Ah, Valentine’s Day, a day when millions of singles are made to feel even more lonely than they usually do. There’s nothing like this holiday when it comes to being reminded by commercials, candy displays in stores and friends and co-workers talking about their plans with their dates for the big night.
Well there is absolutely no reason you should be alone for this year’s holiday or any Valentines Day in the future. If you are, then it’s your own fault. I’ve been hammering at you since the day I started this blog to just take the plunge and join a Dating Site. Just joining one isn’t enough either. If you’re going to do it then do it right. Put up your picture, fully fill out your profile and try contacting a few people every week until you find the right one.
I remember back in my younger days that I felt like a total loser whenever I was single on Valentine’s Day. There is no reason to feel like a pathetic loser for being single. What you should be feeling instead, is resolve. Resolve to be in a happy and healthy relationship by this time next year. If you’re unhappy being along then do something about it and change it.
Even if you don’t have time to make a real date with someone perhaps you could set up a virtual date. Anyone who has ever gone out to dinner anywhere decent on V-Day knows what I’m talking about when I say that sometimes actual Valentine’s dates can be a nightmare of over crowded restaurants and bars. It’s my opinion that a Virtual Date can be just as good or even better than a real one in this case.
Another angle to look at here is that this time of year people do tend to be a little more lonely so it’s a really good time to contact people on Dating Sites. A lot of people are checking in on them more often in the hopes that someone has tried to contact them. Why not be the one making the contact? Does it get more romantic than meeting the love of your life on Valentine’s Day? One thing’s for sure, you will always remember the day you met each other.
As always, all of the Online Dating Sites listed at the top of this page offer Mobile Dating as well as Virtual Dating and of course real dating. You can also check out my newest Dating Site Thirties Love and remember that all dating sites are not the same.
Also remember the number one secret to dating success, HAVE FUN on your dates, even the dreaded first date! Happy hunting and don’t dodge Cupid’s arrows!