Not All Dating Sites Are The Same

  Over the years I’ve heard things about certain dating sites that you see advertised on TV.  I also did my own extensive research on it a few years back.  I joined all the big name sites both free and pay sites.  What I found was that the complaints I’ve heard about those sites are absolutely true.  Not only were they shady about charging my credit card without my permission but they are also loaded with fake profiles placed there just to lure you in and take your money.

  How do I know this?  I live in a VERY small town surrounded by nothing but small towns for 100 miles (or more) in every direction.  When I logged on to the most advertised site out there I saw that there were several beautiful model types living in my little town!   There are also many, many model types living in the small towns all around me! How exciting right?  I mean we see them all walking down our little Main Street all the time in their fancy designer clothing shopping at our only grocery store, only drug store and eating in our only restaurant!  You really ought to see them out there vaccinating cows, branding calfs and driving tractors.  You’d think they couldn’t throw down a calf and brand it the way they do with those skinny little model arms. It’s a sight to see I tell ya! Okay, maybe I’m being a little sarcastic right now but I think you get my point.  These women don’t live anywhere near this place looking like that. They are fake profiles probably placed there by their affiliates,  purely for the purpose of luring people in and getting their money and I don’t see those sites working hard to get rid of those profiles either. They benefit from them too so why would they? Well it’s deception and it’s wrong that’s why they SHOULD but they don’t.

  Another often advertised site promises to find you your soul mate.  Well, to be honest, I didn’t join that one to check it out. I’d heard enough terrible things about that one that I didn’t even bother.  I mean, a friend of mine who is a big girl, paid them to find the love of her life only to be sent the profiles of 3 men who were not interested at ALL in a woman of size. She had a heck of time in trying to get her money back and I don’t think she ever did.  This is only one of several stories of similar nature I’ve heard about them too.   No, they just aren’t worth my time or yours.

  My opinions on this might seem biased. After all I do have the links to 6 dating sites at the top of my page here but the truth is, I could promote any dating site I want to because they all have affiliate programs. I choose to associate myself with the 6 sites above because I know my partners and I are trustworthy and believe in treating people fairly.  We will never spam you. We will never charge your credit card without your permission.  And we work very hard to ensure that all profiles on the site are legitimate.  No “models on Main Street” here, only a few gorgeous small town girls are listed from my little town. 

At this point I will go over the 6 sites.

 The First Site:  3MillionSingles.com   is a general dating site.  You can find any type of person there once you enter what interests you.  Like to garden and want to find someone who shares your passion? Just enter that. There are several hobbies and interests to choose from. Oh, and the name is true, in fact there are over 3 million singles world wide listed here.

 The Second Site:  CurvyLove.com is my oldest site.  It’s for BBW’s and their admirers.  You can also find BBW’s that share your interests in just as many categories as the one above.  There you will find girls that vary from just slightly over weight to Super Sized BBW’s.

 The Third Site:  Soldier2Love.com is obviously for Singles in the Military. Again, you can customize your interests there.  Want to find a hero to love? This is the place for that. This is a great site to look for pen pals. Maybe you can give a soldier abroad some company from home.  

The Fourth Site:  Uniform2Love.com is probably my favorite. It’s for single Police and Fire Fighters.  Again, I’m helping heroes to find love here. Is anything better than that?

The Fifth Site:  LoveIsInterracial.com is for white people interesting in dating black people and people looking to date white people. I think this one is pretty self explanatory.

The Sixth Site: FortiesLove.com is for people in their forties.  You don’t have to be in your forties to join nor are you locked into looking for other people in their forties because you can set the search to any age criteria, 18 and over, that you want.

 

  Those are my sites.  I know you probably think I’m being biased in my opinions but I am an honest person. I think I’ve shown that by telling you what I have about myself and my partners. I could have lied and said I don’t a gain a thing from those sites but that’s not how I operate. 

  At one point I tried to promote dating sites for other companies but I just couldn’t force myself to do it. I realized that I was hesitant to tell my single friends about those sites and I just can’t, in good conscience, promote a site that I don’t believe in or trust. Your money is not worth losing  my self respect over.  So, if you have been burned by a  Dating Site in the past I promise you will have a better experience with the sites listed above.  If you don’t I would ask that you come tell me about it here so I can make it right for you. 

Thanks for reading my blog! :-)

Who I Am…

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  I’ve spent many years on the web and frequenting chat rooms,  failed social sites,  Facebook and lately, Twitter. I have seen so many things over the years and met so many people that I actually have plenty to say on a blog.  In the chat world things are extreme. I have come across incredibly kind and amazing people and at the other extreme I have come across truly vicious people who thrive on hurting others. I’ve also come across a vast amount of perverts looking for nude pics or dirty talk. 

  The stories I’ve come across have been dramatic.   There’s a good sampling of them to come and they will be titled as  Love Story or Horror Story.  Those stories are always coming so if you like them continue to check back for new dramas unfolding in the Internet world.  As you will come to see, the years I’ve  spent online have led me to advise people looking for Romance on the Web to use dating sites such as 3millionsingles.com if they are serious about finding love. 

   You might be wondering what makes me feel like I have valid advice for people looking for love on the internet. Well, I met my husband in chat 11 yrs ago and was quite lucky in finding a normal, well adjusted person picking me up from the airport upon our first meeting. It is a matter of luck. So many people can tell you that from experience. Once you see some of the Horror Stories  you’ll see that for yourself.  Sometimes even the smartest most cautious people can be fooled. I don’t envy the single person looking for love in chat or on social sites.  It’s a rough world out there in the land of Dancers, Strippers, Firemen and Cowboys so it’s a good idea to take it easy, relax and just see what comes your way.  Hopefully you will read my advice, take what you want from it and enjoy the Internet.

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